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Taking “Getting Dirty” to a New Level
September 18, 2009
A couple visiting London from Wichita, Kansas was robbed while having sex in a trash bin. They recovered their stolen jewelry, wallets and shoes when the robbers were apprehended after committing the crime.
It’s not necessary to resort to dumpster diving to have hot, “dirty” sex. You can avoid the risk of hepatitis and rat bites by creating the illusion of that nearly public, urgent sex even if you’re in a hotel room or at home.
–Set the stage, i.e., see what props you may want handy. Energetic music? Chair? Stilettos?
–Tell your partner that you’re in the mood to ravish and be ravished in return. If your partner agrees to the fantasy…
–Keep at least some of your clothes on, ideally items you’re not worried about wrinkling (unless that limitation turns you on).
–Try body positions that would work in cramped quarters, i.e., up against a door or wall, leaning over a chair or bed, having one partner straddle the other on a chair, etc.
–If the Dirty Dumpster Look appeals to you, smear each other with chocolate body paint, whipped cream, or even extra virgin olive oil. Another sexologist suggested recently that couples spread peanut butter (if you aren’t allergic) on sexual pleasure points because the stick-to-it quality of PB ensures that a partner uses a lot of tongue to remove every last bit.
You can write your own script from here. Fantasy is an important part of many people’s sex lives — there’s no need to censure imagination, and as long as your partner consents, there’s no need to censure your behavior.
Except for the nearly public sex in a London dumpster. That probably wasn’t the best idea.
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ummm yeah… sex in a dumpster just isn’t a turn on for most people… and for those that are?… they may need a few sessions with the therapist… but i like your suggestions in this article! thank you for sharing!